the lecturer had threatened to fail
one of his female students Tega if she refused to sleep with him.
Initially, Tega had rejected his advances, but when Mr Lecturer's wahala
became plenty, then he threatened to fail her, Tega gave in. Well
kinda.Monday, 10 June 2013
Delta State University Lecturer Thrown Out Naked After He Tried Molesting A Female Student
the lecturer had threatened to fail
one of his female students Tega if she refused to sleep with him.
Initially, Tega had rejected his advances, but when Mr Lecturer's wahala
became plenty, then he threatened to fail her, Tega gave in. Well
kinda.Boko Haram fakes funeral, kills 11 in Maiduguri
MAIDUGURI – (AFP) - Boko Haram Islamists have stormed a neighbourhood
in the restive city of Maiduguri, killing at least 11 people with
weapons hidden in a coffin, local residents said Monday.
There were conflicting reports as to the number of people who lost their lives in the attack that began late Friday.
Information has been slow to emerge in the region because the mobile
phone network has been shut down by the military amid an offensive aimed
at crushing the Islamists.
Military spokesman Lieutenant
Colonel Sagir Musa confirmed that gunmen launched attacks on Friday
evening in the neighbourhoods of Hausari, Fizzan and Gwange.
Hausari resident Moh’d Aji said 10 attackers came in a pick-up truck, with a coffin visible in the exposed flat-bed rear.
“Everybody thought they were going for burial until they alighted from
their vehicle and started bringing out their guns,” said Aji.
“They just opened fire into different directions.”
He said 11 bodies were recovered after the attack, including one child.
Another resident, Habibu Malud, said 13 people were killed.
The military spokesman said troops responded on Saturday morning, raiding insurgent “hideouts” in the targeted neighbourhoods.
“Five of the suspects died in a shootout as they attempted to flee,” Musa said.
It was not clear if the five dead reported by Musa were among the corpses spotted by residents.
Boko Haram fighters are known to blend in with the local population,
and distinguishing between insurgent deaths and civilian casualties is
typically difficult.
The group has said it is fighting to create an Islamic state in Nigeria’s mainly Muslim north.
The insurgency has left 3,600 people dead since 2009, including killings by the security services.
The military launched a sweeping offensive against Boko Haram on May 15
and has claimed successes, describing the Islamists as being in
“disarray.”
But those claims have been impossible to verify and
there are concerns that the insurgents may regroup once the military
pressure fades.
There has been a lull in the number of reported
attacks since the offensive was launched, but very little information
has emerged from the northeast with the phone networks down.
The group has repeatedly carried out attacks in Maiduguri, their traditional base.
They were thought to have relocated to sparsely populated areas in
Nigeria’s semi-desert northeast amid a crackdown in Maiduguri.
The ongoing offensive has been most heavily concentrated in these remote areas, particularly along the border with Cameroon.
Source:Vanguard Newspaper
Saturday, 8 June 2013
Double tragedy in Ondo as man kills wife, hangs himself
IT was
double tragedy over the weekend in Ondo state as a 47 year old Ex banker now a
Taxi driver after ten years of marriage stabbed his former wife Amudat
Oluwafunmilayo Lateef to death and thereafter committed suicide by hanging
himself.
The
marriage was blessed with five children before things fell apart between the
couple who lived at Omoniyi quarters along Agbogbo area, along Owo-Benin-Akure
expressway.
The
deceased wife aged 45 who was a trader at Iloro market Akure and hails from
Ijaraisin in Kwara state.
Also
the late Jimoh who was formerly a baker hails from Osogbo in Osun state.
Report
had it that the couple’s marriage had been estranged in the last two years with
the husband threatening to kill the wife and also commit suicide.
Sources
said that family members agreed that they should separate for a while to allow
time heal their troubled marriage following alleged battering of the wife by
Jimoh after their inability to reconcile them.
Also
another source said that two weeks ago Jimoh went to Court for a divorce and
the court granted his request but when Oluwafunmilayo went back to the house to
pack her belonging Jimoh pleaded with her to remain and not to leave him.
However,
Friday afternoon, one of the children of the deceased after returning from
school meet his mum in the pool of her own blood and the body of his father
dangling from the ceiling of the house.
He
reportedly raised alarm which attracted the residents and the whole community
was thrown into confusion as a result of the double tragedy.
The
chairman of the Landlord Association of Omoniyi quarters, Mr Ojo Oluwatayo with
other landlords in the area rushed to the Divisional Police station in Ijapo to
report the matter.
The
DPO, SP Jane Mbanefo and other policemen according to investigation mobilised
to the scene.
Vanguard
gathered that the the bodies of the couple have been deposited at the state
Specialist Hospital morgue for autopsy.
Meanwhile,
the family of Jimoh has pleaded with the police to released his corpse to them
for burial since he is a muslim.
Speaking
with Vanguard the uncle of late Jimoh, Baba labaika said “We have reported to
the Deji of Akure and we want to bury Jimoh in his house while his ex wife will
be buried else where since there is no case.
The
Police Image Maker Wole Ogodo confirmed the ugly incident.
Ogodo
said that the matter was reported to the Police by the Chairman of the Landlord
Association of the residence of the deceased couple.
He
said that a blood stained knife used by the late husband to kill the wife was
recovere from the scene of the crime.
The
Image Maker added that Jimoh after stabbing the wife to death also committed
suicide by hanging himself.
Friday, 7 June 2013
SOME SIGNS TO HELP KNOWS WHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS HEADING FOR A ROCK
1.
YOU’VE “UNCOUPLED.”
Couples whose marriages are over, or nearly over, have usually uncoupled, or
disconnected from each other.If you’re no longer spending any time together, if
one or both of you is spending all your time at work, with friends, online—and
if feels like a relief not to be with each other—it’s a sign that you’ve already
disengaged from the Marriage or Relationship.
2. ONE
SPOUSE REFUSES TO TRY. There
are a lot of damaging, seemingly insurmountable problems that some marriages
encounter and rebound from, such as infidelity, the loss of a close family member
and a long sexual drought but it even worst if one spouse repeatedly brings up
an issue, and the other spouse refuses to go along, the marriage is in trouble.
“One partner can’t do all the trying on his or her own.
3.
THERE’S A LACK OF RESPECT IN THE RELATIONSHIP. One of the most important
aspects of a healthy marriage is mutual respect, When that’is gone—when one
partner consistently feels dismissed, rejected and condescended to (and the
other partner doesn’t see it or refuses to talk through it), you’re in a bad
place. “Marriages that reach this place are toxic
4.
YOU’RE NO LONGER A TEAM.
I may sound footballing, In healthily humming-along marriages, both partners
work as a team on everything from parenting to running the household to
supporting each other in career and personal ambitions. “If you’ve both started
moving in completely separate orbits, or if you’re not working together on
day-to-day issues, it’s a sign of serious trouble,”
5. AN
UNFAITHFUL SPOUSE KEEPS AN EX-LOVER AS A FRIEND. Infidelity is an enormous
hurdle for a marriage to overcome, but just ending the affair is not enough,For
a marriage to fully get past one spouse’s adultery, the unfaithful half of the
couple cannot maintain a “friendship” with the former lover. No matter what he or
she says about the innocence of such a relationship, “nothing good can come out
of it.
6. NO
COMPROMISING IN TERMS OF WANTS AND NEEDS. A major part of marriage involves
trying to fulfill your partner’s needs while also making sure your own needs
are met. It’s a lifelong dance, a give and take, and it requires constant
communication. But if your partner continually refuses to listen to what you
need (time, affection, sex/physical contact, help with children or chores), or
refuses to share his own needs, you’re not in a good place,
.
7. ONE
SPOUSE IS A SERIAL CHEATER.
“Some individuals are just not cut out
for marriage; they are unable to remain monogamous, even if they seemed to have
wanted to get married.What’s worse, they manage to put the blame for their
philandering and untrustworthiness on their patners, usually for being too
jealous or controlling or not meeting certain particular needs.They may
appologise ones caught but to stop is not a thing of the serial cheater. That’s
a problem you can’t fix, and likely spells the end of your marriage.
8. YOU
DISAGREE ABOUT WHETHER TO HAVE CHILDREN OR NOT. There are many areas of
compromise in a marriage, such as who is responsible for dealing with the
finances, where you should spend the holidays, how to handle family issues and
so on. But if one of you is absolutely sure you want a child and the other
categorically refuses, you’re in trouble. “If someone’s close to either side of
the will-we-or-won’t-we-have-children fence, you can work through it. But if
not, and having a child is a life goal of yours, you may be looking at the end
of your marriage,”
9. YOU
NO LONGER COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER. No
problem in a marriage can be solved without open, honest communication. If
you’ve reached a point where all you ever talk about is mundane things, like
who needs to buy milk, you’re in trouble, “Lack of personal, intimate exchange
in a marriage is a very bad sign, especially if you are talking to others.”
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